Christmas Traditions

This last week we celebrated Christmas with one of our favorite traditions, making gingerbread houses. And of course, while everyone was constructing their houses I had to take pictures of the Christmas lights & the tree.

I hope you are all enjoying spending time with the loved ones in your homes & enjoying the slower, quieter Christmas we've been gifted this year. This is how I am choosing to see it this year. A chance to slow down & focus on the important things.

All my love,

Jes

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